tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post5250580313884805373..comments2024-03-19T09:03:49.770+05:30Comments on Shobhaa De: Shobhaa Dehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05610708004901279105noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-68997616858721447942011-10-28T14:57:04.988+05:302011-10-28T14:57:04.988+05:30www.ewaytoquran.comwww.ewaytoquran.comteamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02020269381801416974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-46706072672236949162011-10-26T16:45:38.110+05:302011-10-26T16:45:38.110+05:30Well madam, after reading your article i agree tha...Well madam, after reading your article i agree that flirting has become difficult for us men. Reason , don't ask, i don't want to sound like a despo, but the fact is that we have fears of what shall happen when we initiate conversation with a woman.At times we are mocked and ridiculed, given that fact that we are simple and are making our pitch in the dating world, we certainly don't like being humiliated.<br /><br />Because after ending our conversation with a female, she literally puts us down, she shares with her companions that what idiotic man he is and how bad is his dressing sense. No law prosecutes a man coming up and just initiating conversation with a woman. If you don't like diplomatically show him the way away and then forget him. Is it necessary to humiliate him behind his back??<br /><br />And by the way what are many of you Indian Females waiting for, A Handsome Hunk as your partner, dream on ladies, in one or two years like it or not , your parents will get you tied up with some Bespectacled, pot bellied filthy Techiee/MBA Grad/IAS Officer or whichever male who is fit to be passes as an eligible boy in the matrimonial market, so bad that when he shall kiss you, your mouth will feel the stench of municipal toilets, such shall be your Husbands.<br /><br />So for god sake, talk nicely to a man who approaches you and take matters ahead. Don't be rude and don't be haughty. You are at the end of the day just some other ordinary female.<br /><br />Remember this and take it ahead!!!!!!!!!!!!!Bhaveen Shethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08442607053947442213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-86817592960542498422011-10-24T20:50:11.687+05:302011-10-24T20:50:11.687+05:30Loved reading this article. Thanks for dealing wit...Loved reading this article. Thanks for dealing with such a topic. These days,flirting and kidding around has lost the significance with woman being more and more reluctant to accept and reflect on those, and men being too scary of being misinterpreted,if they pass on compliments and comments. Guess its the attitude our system has cultured all the way. I feel its too good to get a compliment on your looks whether its from people of opposite sex or not. It gives you a confidence, makes you go social,and helps you widen your perspective. Well harmless flirting is always good to have a healthy mind. :)Ironic Whimzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06728384517780066755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-62147437593765825392011-10-19T14:45:04.215+05:302011-10-19T14:45:04.215+05:30Well my critical analysis and observation on this ...Well my critical analysis and observation on this is as follows. With women becoming more and more independent, financially and otherwise; it has led to a paradigm shift in the way men and women interact, more so in this age of instant gratification. <br />There are NO genuine chivalrous men around, mind you !!! If you see someone of the kind opening doors for his lady, or over-zealous complimenting, you bet the person either knows he's being watched or its a put on or the person is just hard-wired to follow what he's seen as being cool. Plain and simple !!<br />For women taking initiatives in making first moves on men, doing the flirty acts, well that's just a case of the woman giving her consent for the guy to take things to the mutually rewarding level of orgasmic bliss. And so the multiple layers of flirting, what I call as innocent foreplay does not exist now. Ppl are so stressed and are working such binary lives, its a case where either something works or it doesn't, there's just no middle ground, no time and space for testing waters with flirtatious acts. Its a result oriented society now in all spheres, and the men and women never had it so good with the sexual liberalization of the society. :)Arjunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08600620536502461953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-21253001254960874472011-10-18T12:57:35.815+05:302011-10-18T12:57:35.815+05:30I can relate to both the Indian and the British tr...I can relate to both the Indian and the British traits of vanishing flirting. Receiving the compliment in the right spirit is becoming increasingly rare (Among girls AND boys)! Love it that you brought the topic up :)<br /><br /> Dr. Anand Nadkarni had written a brilliant piece in Marathi called 'Maitrin' on a similar topic... That was a great read too!<br />Regards<br />~Arnika<br />arnika-saakaar.blogspot.comArnikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10356303944895612540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-74871957473936225162011-10-17T18:52:30.629+05:302011-10-17T18:52:30.629+05:30Sadly enough flirting has never been a thoroughly ...Sadly enough flirting has never been a thoroughly understood concept in our culture. Unless you are from a certain strata of society that is a few rungs removed from the angst and "nessecary" roughness that characterises daily life in India, flirting is a dangerous sport. Less about normal human interaction and often it is seen as being an invitation to open a tinderbox of suppressed violence and misogyny.Another Kiran In NYChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15949641865013106368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-92153193920530790492011-10-17T13:10:10.341+05:302011-10-17T13:10:10.341+05:30right guys haan? I say burn ur boats and go for a ...right guys haan? I say burn ur boats and go for a kill . I am a guy and I am not hesitant to flirting with a girl i adore ,but how on earth am I or the chick are supposed to know whether we are right for each other ? I guess we have to find that outVaibhav Barputehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03062337312229699734noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-31294102544787327372011-10-16T16:41:23.123+05:302011-10-16T16:41:23.123+05:30The pic (the one with a big frame and chandelier)i...The pic (the one with a big frame and chandelier)its awesome really very beautiful!<br />Flirting...views expressed quite true..but iam all for harmless flirting!Pooja Rathorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13842722660077056706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-19727931059558358482011-10-16T13:42:53.549+05:302011-10-16T13:42:53.549+05:30Great! I completely agree with both of you. To thi...Great! I completely agree with both of you. To think of it, the last time I actually constantly flirt was back in boarding school days; that too without any ill intensions or anything else as well, but simply just pure amusing manner as we can say. And I was around 4th to 6th grade. And the bonus part was I made friends with wonderful people then! But ever since I left the school & lived at home, everything changed, by nature there's more old fashion restriction on every single thing. And I've fairly adopted 90% of it & passionately honored this new value for 13 years but now as I've grown up & had my share of experience I've realized out of that 90% only 5% was the (reason) why some things went down hill in mylife. Now, I've started to change, trying not to be too serious, & just enjoying everybody's compliment or anything that everyone has to say! Even though, my mom has raised me with the idea that I shouldn't waste a minute with someone who's conversation would be simply none sense & for her; flirt is big time none sense since we don't get any penny or knowledge out of it, she came from extremely...(orthodox) background. But I'm not going to let any more damage happen to me & wil very wisely move a head in life with both good old tradition & good new ideas. :-) I'm so glad that I've found one of my lost personality back & loving it. One thing, it definitely makes me feel more humbled, & lovable that's for sure & cheers for myself to that. Yayyyy great to have brighter & better social life! Thanks for Sharing this Ms.De, I think many girls go throught the same issue, specially the ones who've only lived with their family for 24/7. It's just that they needs to be told by someone that it's ok to flirt as long as at least the other person doesn't bother or bore them to death! :-)Tsomo85https://www.blogger.com/profile/14210544871260847675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-63683946449119593372011-10-16T02:50:15.206+05:302011-10-16T02:50:15.206+05:30Could you please take part in the survey? It is fo...Could you please take part in the survey? It is for a project from fashion institute, Paris. Those who takes part will have a chance to win a coupon from Wills lifestyle.<br />Thanks<br />http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/9Q2J8XVShalethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12059939879781377798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-13204867584630543652011-10-15T17:38:29.803+05:302011-10-15T17:38:29.803+05:30Nice pics.
Flirting.... NAA RE BABA Its become to...Nice pics.<br /><br />Flirting.... NAA RE BABA Its become too costly nowadays of recession :)चंद्रमौलेश्वर प्रसादhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08384457680652627343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-2622120547332425712011-10-15T16:58:14.379+05:302011-10-15T16:58:14.379+05:30I disgaree :-) I am a flirt by nature and flirt al...I disgaree :-) I am a flirt by nature and flirt all the time and men reciprocate too. I think you need to flirt with right kind,they have gays these days who do not appreciate being hit by women as they do not feel macho enough for being not hit by a man instead. <br />Thus flirt with a man and he will aiiooooo like Shakti Kapoor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-20113541419730194842011-10-15T15:06:36.515+05:302011-10-15T15:06:36.515+05:30there is no time to flirt....people dont want to w...there is no time to flirt....people dont want to waste each others time by giving unwanted hints...most of us are looking for the right guy and dont choose to waste our time with th wrong ones.<br />and these days women can buld up their sself esteem with other things, a man's attention may not necessarily do it.kakakahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16466491623842204064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-89122315222093922011-10-15T13:22:07.453+05:302011-10-15T13:22:07.453+05:30hehe nt sure y dis reminds me of d fairly old now ...hehe nt sure y dis reminds me of d fairly old now tata indica commercial wid dose 4 grls n guy in tan goin 'its d rite kind of dayy to soak up d sun nanana'..*ok i forgot d rest of d wrds* :o<br />grt pics :)Sadiya Merchanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03316384629883317783noreply@blogger.com