tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post809460530352554301..comments2024-03-19T09:03:49.770+05:30Comments on Shobhaa De: Besharam Coach!!!Shobhaa Dehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05610708004901279105noreply@blogger.comBlogger59125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-71350645079052999312020-06-19T19:58:46.838+05:302020-06-19T19:58:46.838+05:30my name is scott, I was heartbroken because i had ...my name is scott, I was heartbroken because i had very small penis, not nice to satisfy a woman, i had so many relationship cut off because of my situation, i have used so many product which i found online but none could offer me the help i searched for. i saw some few comments about this specialist called Dr OKISIN and decided to email him at dr.okisinsolutiontemple@gmail.com, so I decided to give his herbal product a try. i emailed him and he got back to me, he gave me some comforting words with his herbal pills for Penis Enlargement, Within 14days of it, i began to feel the enlargement of my penis, " and now it just 2 weeks of using his products my penis is about 9 inches longer and i so happy contact DR OKISIN now via email dr.okisinsolutiontemple@gmail.com or his Whatsapp number +2348109374702. may God reward you for your good work.Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00869332435028933945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-31932240779282839422010-09-25T19:03:37.569+05:302010-09-25T19:03:37.569+05:30dubai hotels jumeirah
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the article is ...hi shobhaa.I am shiv.nice pics ...<br />the article is an eye-opener...it's really high time now...women must part ways with "silence" and be bold enough to raise their voice against anything wrong happening to them...<br />ok byeeeeeeee....puskar9https://www.blogger.com/profile/01442756987734193569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-29665739622403949042010-08-03T03:36:45.621+05:302010-08-03T03:36:45.621+05:30Height of cynicism it might appear to be, but say ...Height of cynicism it might appear to be, but say this I must.<br /><br />At least they won't be shot dead or picked up by the police and tortured, unlike some other 'whistle-blowers' in the recent past.Sidhusaahebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08428201823375343016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-46315650186474327092010-07-31T22:48:57.140+05:302010-07-31T22:48:57.140+05:30Hi Shobhaa, nice post. This is Isha from DC.. I...Hi Shobhaa, nice post. This is Isha from DC.. I've sent a mail to you to get a perspective on one of my article. Pl do revert back at the earliest possible.<br /><br />ThanksIsha Naranghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05016525845858455456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-6442398000832595592010-07-31T20:46:51.812+05:302010-07-31T20:46:51.812+05:30have you read michael crichton's disclosure? s...have you read michael crichton's disclosure? sexual discrimination.. happens both ways.JigsawJaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07051559377322824052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-5981985786711243312010-07-30T11:18:15.964+05:302010-07-30T11:18:15.964+05:30@krunal....I've said this before & will sa...@krunal....I've said this before & will say this now. As far as upper middle class is concerned, there is no difference between America & India. There are as many divorces if not more, & men are fleeced to the tune of lakhs in the name of divorce money & they are denied a look of their children. There are scores of Indian boys in the marriage market who are in their thirtys & don't want to fall in the trap of marriage. <br />These boys are expected to pay for the sins of their ancestors by the women. <br />It is just as they say in Hindi, 'kare koi bhare koi.'<br />Shobhaa, thanx for the ginger plant & the aerial view. But I'll never forgive you for denying us the murals depicting Buddha's life. That would've certainly been a collecter's delight !Lathahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10391580973252067189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-76453567152168508472010-07-29T21:48:29.370+05:302010-07-29T21:48:29.370+05:30@Sonal,
You say "Krutika is bang on when she...@Sonal,<br /><br />You say "Krutika is bang on when she says the Us is as male dominated and women given as big a raw deal as in India." <br /><br />Any facts to support this? Do you think there are as many restrictions and abuse against women in US as in India? oh girl, you make me laugh..at your ignorance. Now just dont make up some stupid statements to support your lies.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14965560486532181143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-2526986534978103372010-07-29T21:09:57.962+05:302010-07-29T21:09:57.962+05:30@divya
after being severely villified by sonal, i ...@divya<br />after being severely villified by sonal, i have to say ur comments sound a lot respectful to me. just to answer you TOI question, the answer is discrimination against men. i tell you why. do u know, in the last 5 years 6 boys committed suicide because of ragging in the college and they all were sexually abused (by other boys ofcourse). the farmers who committ suicide in the villages of india are all men. The guys who got racially attacked in austrailia were all boys- and just to give you some example, one of them got hit on the genital area, one's eye was poked, one was set on fire, one was severely hit by a baseball bat. and all those violence acts were performed by boys again. [and austrailians have every right to get pissed off at us. we go to their homes and steal away their jobs and boast about how we indians now rule austrailia is just unfair. just bcoz our education system is filthy, doesn't mean we should steal away other's jobs and still expect to be treated fairly]. but you know what when anything happens to men it is considered a commercial issue but now just assume if the same things would have happened to women- tons of data would have been added to anti-man directory. as for men getting raped, well as long as a woman is beautiful and sexy, no young man in this world would mind getting raped by her. men actually like sexually active women. as of 3/5 women suffering mentally and physically- well as you live in america let me tell you, in america there are almost 10 government websites completely dedicated to women's health (not a single one for men in spite of the fact that it always men who suffer from speech sound disorder, dylexia, protatis cancer). everynewspaper in this world is having a seperate women's health section daily. we don't even celebrate men's day. have you heard of it. how much more do you want?a hindu seekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05585885786625699551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-43846749202569421672010-07-29T19:39:54.165+05:302010-07-29T19:39:54.165+05:30Gosh...
Krunal and Sonal, you two need to calm dow...Gosh...<br />Krunal and Sonal, you two need to calm down and take a chill pill. Have a thanda mango lassi!!! When I woke up this morning, I knew I'll have tons of data to read at work! :)<br /><br />Anyhow, both of you have your own perspective on issues in India. However, I want to point out one thing, if 1 out of 5 men gets bashed up or goes through a rough time in life, then 3 out of 5 women suffers physically and mentally. And Krunal, you cannot deny that regardless of all your facts! I'll tell you one more thing... guys can walk in the middle of the night anywhere in India with extreme confidence and courage however, a girl cannot even think of stepping outside all alone! <br /><br />And since you are show-me-the-facts type of guy... just surf thru TOI, the only thing you'll find is somewhere a girl getting RAPED/SEXUAL ASSAULTED and finally MURDERED... and what not? <br /><br />And if men have suffered equally then howcome we fail to find a single news on TOI about a man getting raped/sexually assaulted???<br /><br />I'm not trying to start another debate here but it's something that I always come across on news channel and thought of sharing...Divya (Virmani) Chaddahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05728297995713109412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-18185840986721108712010-07-29T17:42:30.850+05:302010-07-29T17:42:30.850+05:30Sonal/Krunal,
in-short:
Good/Bad exist within pers...Sonal/Krunal,<br />in-short:<br />Good/Bad exist within person not within a particular Gender.<br />- Correct?<br />listen "Kaka" until further argument:<br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZjhOgSDMvaAAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-33468221622620918232010-07-29T17:09:58.014+05:302010-07-29T17:09:58.014+05:30well Krunal, all i will say is that society is fas...well Krunal, all i will say is that society is fast changing and u men should wake up to the changes instead of denying them.The old power structures dont exist anymore, more so in ure generation!If u are having a tuff time dealing with it, well take ure time. But expecting women to adhere to age old diktats and traditions will certainly not work anymore.and no matter what u say or do, u cant keep women down.they have been given a hard time for generations and are only now beginning to taste some freedom,that too in urban areas.In the North and in the interiors old mindsets continue to rule.well if abusing women makes u feel better, so be it.sonalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03364345241002574203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-31849760265481711822010-07-29T16:37:59.631+05:302010-07-29T16:37:59.631+05:30@sonal
well, what more do u want me to do? wheneve...@sonal<br />well, what more do u want me to do? whenever you demanded some data regarding anything, i gave it to you. u wanted data for india and i gave it to you. i gave you official data involving majority of people. but nothing satisfies you. and what did u do. u used me as an outlet for your emotional outbursts and anger vilifying me completely. all i wanted from you was i wanted you to acknoledge that women's situation is not uniquely awful. there are men paying the price of discimination without voicing anything. but as you speak for indian women, why can't i speak for indian ( or all) men.? but you need to understand that the only way i could do this is by stating some issues that concern men only. in short i just used your weapon against you and now you know how sharp it is and it doesn't pay to keep playing around using it assuming that no body is getting hurt. i no where in this post mentioned that i support men who exploit women, in fact i am against this guy kaushik. i feel sorry for you that you have had some bad experiences with men (i would say sorry to you on their behalf but i guess that wouldn't be enough for you.)but it is completely unfair of you to assume that only your experiences count. there are people out there who have opposite experiences which are equally bad and convincing. don't you have sympathy for them. i mean c'mon forgiveness, sympathy, love, modesty used to be female virtues. (i know you're gonna pick me up on this) i am not teaching anybody here anything. but i guess i am, just like everyone of us, witnessing and feeling some radical and exponential change in terms of men-women relationship. and what makes it even worse is that we are the first generation who are facing it having no ideal role models to follow. our mistakes would be used by our next generation to learn from. i was never angry at you throughout the entire post (u can see it in my post), but actually i pity women like you. just read back all the comments you posted and ask yourself if you are being bitter or not. you had nothing to give except one iranian example. many women like you have been fooled by the many (not all) female magazines who brainwash you since the childhood into believing that men are all pigs, dogs, rapists, jerks, beasts, stupid, dysfuncional. and women are heavenly entities, as sweet as sugar- you go girl. many women today are turning themselves into the men they hated. anyways i have some decency left, i apologize to you if i offended you which i know from ur comments, no hard feelings. as for 'respect the cock and tame the cunt' comes from probably your favorite star tom cruise's movie magnolia, where he teaches american nice men who get stepped over by women about how to deal with women. may be you should see the whole clip. i can just hope you would reply to this without using any villifying word. as for shobhaa de , alrite, hail the shobhaa (just like hail the hitler). may be you should sometimes visit the blog<br />www.equalbutdifferent.blogspot.com.it's a blog owned by a woman who sympathizes with the problems of men in the society- you will get to know a lot about the dark side of women. it takes guts to admit that there are bad women out there. i definitely admit there are bad men out there.a hindu seekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05585885786625699551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-51429309267424663522010-07-29T16:17:10.408+05:302010-07-29T16:17:10.408+05:30What's going on in Indian Hokey?
First;there ...What's going on in Indian Hokey? <br />First;there was tussle betwn.K.P.S.Gill & Dhanaraj Pillay<br />Then the remuneration problem & now this sexual exploitation scandal. Just like I.P.L. ,hokey too seems 2 have come in limelight.<br />I wonder how come people like Kaushiks are tolerated by players & people around them? Same thing happened in Ruchika Gehrotra case.It's very clear that disgraced people like Kaushiks or Rathods can easily get away with their strong links with powers that be.Otherwise can de dare to do so? On top of it; we have lethargic bureacratic set-up,out-dated laws,corrupt policing,looooooooooooong waiting for court cases.Unless u have some backing from strong influential person/s , NGO or media; u can't heave a sigh of relief. How Jessica Lall got d justice? <br />Finally;1 must have courage 2 speak-up against injustice & bring d culprit 2 book.Satish Ashtaputrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17075082609757640432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-13837856008544252010-07-29T13:40:17.625+05:302010-07-29T13:40:17.625+05:30Thanks Appu for striking a positive note,
Siddhu, ...Thanks Appu for striking a positive note,<br />Siddhu, i wud consider myself privileged if i cud fight on behalf of those women, the fight wud indeed be my own!<br />Krunal,i jst went through all the links u sent across.I must say i am deeply saddened and heartbroken, that this is how u view women.If ure inspiration is Amrika, then i must say there is little hope for Amrika!!<br />As for your blogspost, Respect the cock and tame the cunt, says it all i guess.<br />Sorry readers for being so gross!<br />Sorry Ms De, for taking so much space on your esteemed blog!<br />But frankly i see little hope for the women and the misguided men of this country, if such attitudes prevail.sonalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03364345241002574203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-26488780791452978022010-07-29T13:17:05.188+05:302010-07-29T13:17:05.188+05:30Sonal/Krunal
in-short:
- Today's women is care...Sonal/Krunal<br />in-short:<br />- Today's women is career-oriented<br />- Today's women is with voice<br />- Today's women is demanding amendment within old-age social And family customs & traditions maybe. "Feel of being free" maybe is the demand - in-short.<br />If not, please correct.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-59163538716566970152010-07-29T12:50:24.653+05:302010-07-29T12:50:24.653+05:30@sonal
can u help those hapless women in whicheve...@sonal<br /><br />can u help those hapless women in whichever way you can, other than showing sympathy thru your writings? think over.<br />you made your point forcefully yaar! now take a break.your hubby might have been proud of you by now!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09271315998709732546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-34140071284556667252010-07-29T11:27:59.925+05:302010-07-29T11:27:59.925+05:30I am angry and justifiably so!!
ek to some hapless...I am angry and justifiably so!!<br />ek to some hapless women get taken for a ride, and then this man comes and tell us how the rest of us shud go and bury our heads in the sand!!sonalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03364345241002574203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-49549675372166413972010-07-29T11:15:09.109+05:302010-07-29T11:15:09.109+05:30@sonal
a woman's anger is dangerous to societ...@sonal<br /><br />a woman's anger is dangerous to society,i heard.calm down.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09271315998709732546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-72654495115188428042010-07-29T10:15:10.310+05:302010-07-29T10:15:10.310+05:30Hah! i had been tolerating u so far, thinking u to...Hah! i had been tolerating u so far, thinking u to be some young misguided and misinformed young man, but seriously u are beginning to give me the creeps!!Ure rant, ure constant jingoism against women is seriously pathological. wonder where it stems from!!<br />My world is important as are my experiences as an adult educated, thinking woman in this country.<br />Yes and i speak for my country, as i speak for the women of this country who in all probablity have similar experiences, as this blogpost which generated all the debate, states!!<br />As for men like u who believe they know more about women and womens issues than women themselves, the less said the better.<br />Have a nice day, and while u are so busy!!! i am merely chopping up vegetables in the kitchen table.sonalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03364345241002574203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-49847399211496512602010-07-29T09:52:04.637+05:302010-07-29T09:52:04.637+05:30@SONAL
i am super busy right now. but if indian co...@SONAL<br />i am super busy right now. but if indian condition is all you want to know then here is the link for you.<br />(source = wikipedia)<br /><br /><a href="http://krunalshimpi.blogspot.com/2010/03/sexism-in-india.html" rel="nofollow">discrimination against men in india</a>.<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://krunalshimpi.blogspot.com/2010/01/wage-gape-myth.html" rel="nofollow">the wage-gap myth</a>.<br /><br />please, this is not a 'sonal's world' . u'r individual experiences don't count when the masses are taken into account.a hindu seekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05585885786625699551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-75951453166114395042010-07-29T09:04:25.902+05:302010-07-29T09:04:25.902+05:30Well, Krunal and Edward, this old lady speaks from...Well, Krunal and Edward, this old lady speaks from experience and does'nt jst rant off facts and figures from some site in some faraway country.<br />And Krutika is bang on when she says the Us is as male dominated and women given as big a raw deal as in India.<br />And Krunal, funny, that a mention in her blog by some male bashing gossip coloumnist should generate such pride in you!!<br /><br />This country belongs equally to men and women and they have equal rights as prescribed by our laws, but why is reality so different.<br />The world over women get paid half for the same kind of work,right from tennis players to many others.<br />and Mr Edward, true i am no globe trotter and my scope is limited but i observe society around me and i have been a working woman so i have sufficient data and facts to put a few men behind bars!!<br /><br />And for those who call Shobha a mere gossip columnist, she as a successful, independent woman is aspirational for many of us who may not be so fortunate in life.her lifestyle, her views and the position she commands, means much to many of us dispossesed women who are struggling to make a life for themselves.And above all Krunal there is a honesty in her writings which make millions of readers connect to her, despite her not being the best writer around.She writes in a way that is entertaining and engaging and her position of privilege gives her a vantage standpoint that many of us may not enjoy.<br />If u dont like her or us, get off this forum!!<br />But jst the way u have the freedom of speech, so do we!!sonalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03364345241002574203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3452007250221117551.post-19329927324284702642010-07-29T07:17:34.753+05:302010-07-29T07:17:34.753+05:30@divya
just to give you some fact and figure whic...@divya<br /><br />just to give you some fact and figure which you didn't give to me.<br /><br />"Nor, surprisingly, is it caused by women bearing a disproportionate burden of the workload at home, the ‘second-shift’ as some have labeled it. This explanation falls not because women don’t do more cooking, cleaning and child-caring than men; they still do. It falls because when it comes to the sharing of ‘home’ duties, the trend lines are all moving in the direction you would predict would lead to greater happiness and less stress for women: namely toward greater parity. For example, between 1975 and today women’s housework hours declined from twenty-one per week to seventeen, while men’s jumped from six to thirteen. In 1977 dads with non-teen kids spent 2 hours with them on an average weekday, while moms spent 3.8 hours. Today moms still spend 3.8 hours, while dads’ kid-time has climbed to 3 hours per week day–and if you are a Gen Y dad, you’re all the way up to 4.3 hours per day (Gen Y dads actually spend more time with their non-teen kids than do Gen X moms.)"a hindu seekerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05585885786625699551noreply@blogger.com