It has been a great Diwali! With the family in Alibag. I'm finding it hard to reconnect to reality....
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This appeared in Mumbai Mirror....
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This appeared in Mumbai Mirror....
When the lights
come on….
Prathmesh is a tubby little chap, all of
fourteen, who sells an array of the most colourful aakash kandeels that come
in myriad shapes and sizes, from a
string tied between street lights at a busy traffic intersection in crowded
Thakurdwar. This is his improvised ‘shop’ during Diwali. He can barely cope
with the demand as eager shoppers buy a dozen or more mini-kandeels for their
homes. He digs into an overstuffed leather folder looking for change while two
little assistants( aged eight and ten) deal with a long line of regulars who
love his personally crafted kandeels. I am one of them. Prathmesh has been at
it since he was in class 4! Today, he is in class 10. As I watch him juggling
customers and cash without taking his eyes off the precious kandeels swaying in
the breeze, I smile at an old memory. Prathmesh was knee high at the time. And
not as plump. But he sure as hell knew how to work that small crowd clamouring for
his beautiful lanterns in a street crammed with other lanterns. Prathmesh had obviously
figured out years ago that his are better than his competitors’. As they indeed
are. Two nights ago, I took my time picking the ones I wanted, and saw him
negotiating crisply with a lady asking for the usual discount ( come on…. each pretty
lantern costs twenty bucks…. these
little boys have made them!). He grinned broadly when I asked whether he found
it difficult to keep a track of the loose change. “Yeh mera business hai! I
cannot make a mistake,” was his jaunty reply! What after the tenth grade exam,
I asked. Without looking up from his
wallet, he said, “ Science college. Engineering . Then… full time
business.” Wow!
Thakurdwar has been my beat for decades. I love Girgaum
during Diwali… during any festival, for that matter. My annual Diwali ritual
has not changed. This is where I go to buy traditional ‘faral’ – crisp and
crunchy chaklis, chivda ( two kinds),karanjis, chirotey, anarsey, besan ladoos,
kadak boondi ladoos, tikhat shev. Faral
is followed by toran and diyas shopping from one particular pavement seller,
who also sells the best body scrub on earth – the Maharashtrian herbal utnay.
Heaven knows what goes into that little packet, but it smells divine and your
skin glows for at least a week after! Rangoli powders and chakmaki decorations
to enhance rangoli designs are carefully selected next. Then comes the final
stop - for strings and strings of
fragrant mogras, parijat, jui, champaks, sontakka, jaswanti blossoms. Some are
already made into venis that crown neatly coiled nape buns. Others, are woven
into gajras that stay wound around the wrist or are carefully tucked into a
hair knot, taking care not to crush the delicate petals. It is only Shaku,
sitting on a cleared patch of a dirty pavement, just outside the famous Waman
Hari Pethe showroom ( a landmark in the area) , who understands the delicate
life of the tiny flowers she weaves into gajras and garlands without damaging a
single one. Shaku and I have been friends for years. This time, she looked
under the weather. Another regular asked her worriedly what was wrong. Shaku
smiled, and shrugged off her fever, saying, “It is only high temperature…. cold
and cough. It will go eventually. But Diwali won’t come again this year!” Yup.
Business first!
Prathmesh and Shaku.Two stories that
perfectly capture the spirit of Diwali. That reflect the zest and gutsiness of
Mumbai.Two individuals, struggling on filthy footpaths of a busy city without
cribbing, complaining or giving in to despair. Prathmesh is sure to make it.
And make it big. His bright eyes tell their own story. Shaku is old and tired
now. She has lost her teeth. But not her essential joie de vivre. She throws in
two extra gajras into my bag… grins and wishes me a ‘ Happy Diwali’, urging me
to enjoy my ritual Diwali bath with the utnay
- “ since, of course,we only have one real ‘anghol’ during the year!”
Our Marvelous Mumbai is full of similar
stories… stories that revolve around hope and hard work, and the gift to
recognize the incredible potential of life in terms that go well beyond
material wealth. Perhaps Prathmesh and Shaku
understand the real meaning of
the word ‘rich’ far better than some of our city’s billionaires.
Happy Diwali, readers. Let there be light.
Not noise!
7 comments:
Just wonderful. Why don't you write something like this always, rather than writing about those politicians ,page 3 people and those film celebrities.Why don't people like Shaku do not come up in spite of toiling so hard for so many years?
I wholly agree with Suresh ji..this post is nearer to life.
Nice write-up, Shobhaa!
Here is something offbeat about Diwali. I had termed it conditional greetings - and had done that last year. Those WERE MY HOPES.
And this year, a couple of days after Diwali, we Indians splurged Rs.500 crores on a rocket that would encircle Mars. All of us patted ourselves on the back. And then some killjoy scientist pointed out this: SOME FOOLISH PEOPLE ARE CRIBBING OVER THIS. BUT WE IN INDIA BLOW UP RS. 5000 CRORES ON DIWALI CRACKERS AND POLLUTE THE AIR. THE SO-CALLED ROCKETS SENT UP DO NOT EVEN GO BEYOND 10 METRES.
I would say that is a great comment, but with one caveat.
I agree that we Indians waste money on crackers.
But what was that rocket to go round the circumference of Mars some 400 km away from the Red Planet? After spending Rs.500 crores, if the rocket completes its job next year's September, we would get a confirmation of what NASA, the Russians and the European missions have already stated! In a nutshell, Indians as a whole waste Rs.5000 crores on nationwide rockets and bangs for nothing. Our clever scientists waste Rs.500 crores on one blast off for nothing!
I hope
This Diwali
Concludes as
A happy occasion
To all those
Celebrating it
Provided
The smog
From the gunpowder smoke
Does not cause asthma
The burst crackers’
Falling embers
On their own
Do not trigger
Fatal fires in hutments
Commercial establishments
Trying to sell off their residue stock
Do not burst into flames
By careless acts
Of some smoking joker
Or civic-sense-absent behaviour
Of a neighbourhood establishment
Or home
The revelry does not
Create
Inter-faith quarrels
Morphing into
Communal riots
Celebration drinking bouts
Do not result
Into domestic
And/or local violence
The cracker bursting
Enthusiasm
In residential
Commercial
Compendiums
Cheek by jowl
Do not hinder
The hospital-ward journeys
Of cardiac patients
Or pregnant women
Or accident victims
To retain lives
The differences of the gifts’
Monetary values’
Given to near and dear
Do not cause
Fissures in relationships
And hopefully
Humanity realises
Diwali is in the memory
Of an event
That propounds
Hindu religion’s profound philosophy
Divine parents
Krishna and
Satyabhama
Had to slay
Their wayward
Cruel son
Narakaasura
The festivities of this day
Is a grim reminder
That deeds of any wrongdoer
When crying out for punishment
Ought not to deter
Even parents’ jointly
Awarding the death penalty
On offspring
So that the world at large
Exists peacefully!
Jai Hind!
Happy Diwali, this post can make me imagine Mumbai and the colours and sweets of Diwali, although i've never been to Mumbai. Loved this post, very natural and could instantly draw a parallel with Karachi
What an absolutely beautiful and moving piece, Ms. De. I am homesick and crying here in Minneapolis. Thank you!!!!
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