I just love the architecture of this book display in Chennai!
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Art
and the woman…
I met a fascinating European lady at a
friend’s home recently. As we got talking ( after I had taken in her carelessly
sophisticated and very arty appearance), I was delighted to discover her true
calling in life – she is an art student at fifty plus! You might say there are
thousands like her. Main, non! This fiery and fabulous lady of a certain
vintage ( I am guessing she is closer to fifty than forty) has made India her
home for the past seven years. And is in no hurry to get back to the country of
her birth.Since she is married to a successful businessman ( also European) ,
and they have three grown up children, the former art student lurking within
her, pushed her to explore possibilities to work towards a Master’s degree in
Mumbai. She decided to enroll as a student at one of Mumbai’s oldest and most prestigious art
schools. This is where the fun starts. She was told it was “impossible” since
the school did not accept foreigners. She argued her case with the dean asking
him why she should be discriminated against and debarred when so many Indian
students routinely attend art schools in Europe! Her point was well taken… and
voila!She was in! Trouble was all the other students were much, much younger…
and they weren’t in a hurry to make friends with a foreign woman , old enough
to be their mom! It started with resentment and hostility since they believed
she had deprived a local youngster of a seat. Then came a turning point. She had
observed the many subtle and not so subtle ways through which teachers were
targeting certain students, especially girls. And she decided to speak up. The
authorities were red faced when she pointed out several irregularities and
inconsistencies towards those being victimized and asked to stand outside the
classrooms like they were errant school kids. After a thundering lecture from
her on human dignity and the rights of students, the teachers backed off. And the students
cheered! But that still did not mean she was accepted. She had to jump over countless cultural
barricades and bridge the language gap first. Eventually, and after excelling
in the final exams, she managed to make friends!
Interestingly enough, her experience back home
was not all that different! Once she got her Master’s degree from Mumbai, she
started attending specific art courses at an art school in her old city. Same
story. She laughs, “ If anything, it was a little worse, since the students
were far more direct , blunt and un- diplomatic. They told me “you are too old
to be in art school and you are a woman! Why do you want to take art classes?”
The implication being, “Why don’t you stay home and look after your husband and
kids and leave art to the young ”. Did she not feel offended? Not at all, she
grinned. She had anticipated a shutting of doors and had decided her passion
for art superseded all such reservations. She loves what she does and understands
why her decision to pursue art must seem puzzling to those half her age. But
that doesn’t deter her in the least. She recalls her own father’s lack of
support when she had expressed a desire to join art school as a young girl. He
had refused to support her decision way back then, leaving her filled with
resentment and longing. Today, she is in a position to follow her heart and
enjoys the full support of her family. As to why she picked the art school in
Mumbai to do her Master’s degree, her explanation was still more
interesting. She said art is still
taught in the classical way in India, using live models and a traditional
approach. It is difficult to find that in Europe these days. Art schools cannot
afford to pay models and the methods are a bit too futuristic for her taste!
The good part of her pioneering effort at
the Mumbai art school is that it has led to a change in the admissions’ policy.
Today, there are over fifteen foreigners studying at the institute. And the
bureaucratic atmosphere there is sufficiently relaxed to allow a far more
liberal, relaxed and modern atmosphere throughout the campus. She remembers her
early days there when students would want to bum ciggies off her and would ask
naïve questions about the permissiveness of the West.Today, she is a part of
the fraternity, she belongs to the art community in Mumbai and is totally
immersed in what she loves – her own artistic journey that refuses to recognize
borders, gender, biases, age. And to think she had to travel to Mumbai for
that! Lovely!
20 comments:
amazing
My story is somewhat similar... I started learning Kathak at the age of 37 (little late as people start as early as 5). It took me 6 months to convince the teacher that I could do it. After much persuasion and pleadings, she agreed to have me on trial basis for a week. Even though she was pleased, my fellow students( eldest one was 15 and youngest was 6) refused to even talk to me except two(in a class of 16) who would tell me about their school. It took me one year to be friends with everyone and it has been 4 years since. They now miss my presence when I do not attend the class. May God bless them.
nice read :)
I can give two historical examples of this from India.
Acclaimed as one of India's greatest classical poets and dramatists Kālidāsa [probably lived in 5 century CE] was believed to have been a goatherd. He was sicked on to a conceited princess by a set of angruy suitors. Upon realising what had happened, the woman spurned the man and ordered him to return if he ever became erudite. The tale goes that he was blessed with linguistic aplomb by Hindu Goddess Kāli. He called himself her servant - or Dāsa. The poet's works are legendary.
In the 18th century, there was this man Ram Shastri - who was a wastrel brahmin youth till his middle teens and a near illiterate.
All of a sudden, the chap took a liking for education, reportedly went to Benares [then a famed destination for knowledge seekers] and returned home a scholar.
His works are considered to be the most erudite in the fields of the Hindu Advaita philosophy that has been compared with the Koran and the Bible.
I think the lady deserves a HUG. Good for her! And, for several others like her who are doing what they love - not with "I give a damn attitude"; but with, "Maybe we can be friends attitude"
I love your stories..any time I come across one, I want to tell you..so here it is!!!
Never too late to realize a passion :-)
this is so inspiring :) hats off to her
Well done to the European lady! Very inspiring stuff. Some come to India for a nobel and enlightening cause and to better themselves and yet many come here to experience the joys (more like the evils )of Islamic sex. A Scottish friend recently mailed me this shameful and terrible tale of Islamist debauchery, which appeared in The Daily Telegraph UK. Wonder where the forever sermonising and often Hindu bashing Javed and bibi Shabana, the other Javed and his begum Terrible Teesta, their fellow closet islamist, like them masquerading as egalitarianist, Shabnam, are all hiding from this one. No outrage let alone any demonstrations at such religious sanctioned lasciviousness. For some, when it comes to nocturnal lust and libido, ethics and morality can go down the sewer! Read on the sorry tale.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/india/9993453/Teenager-exposes-Indias-one-month-wives-sex-tourism.html
Woman can change women .
That's what it is all about
nice one mam....
a++ for art and women i read it and like+ for this post.
Loved the post:-)).
Nice write up
Inspirational
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