Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Ready to move to Pakistan....?

This appeared in Sunday Times....
                                 Ready to move to Pakistan….?
What an idiotic man. And what a foolish comment! Giriraj Singh , some would say, should be forgiven for advising all those Indians who have issues with Narendra Modi, to pack up their bags and move to Pakistan! The implication is dangerous even if the suggestion is absurd. I thought about Giriraj Singh’s provocative comment , while listening to the most divine music.  My eyes were shut, my mind open, and all my senses were concentrated on just one thing – the rousing words  of  a troupe of Quwwals from Hyderabad singing their hearts out for a very special lady whose 80th birthday celebrations I was attending. This was at a particularly charming ‘Manzil’ in a posh area of Mumbai. There  used to be many more ‘manzils’ in the locality twenty years ago. Most were torn down to be replaced by impersonal, ugly high rises (surely, Mumbai has some of the worst , so-called ‘modern’ architecture in India?). This particular ‘manzil’ was also crumbling, but  remains rather grand regardless. Our gracious host and his begum  have always been known for their generous hospitality at the magical soirees they organize from time to time. Their neighbours in the ‘manzil’ are a mixed bunch – Hindus, Parsees and Muslims. They are obviously accustomed to these splendid ‘mehfils’ which attract all sorts of  music lovers, including foreign visitors who crave to be included in these elegant gatherings. This evening as no different from earlier evenings – the kebabs and biryani were as mouth watering, and the fragrance of mogra garlands decorating the old, wooden doors to the grand salon, made the air appropriately heady. At one point, the troupe of  impeccably attired Quwwals, carried away by the  mood of the evening, were singing so lustily, I was sure their voices had reached heaven and beyond. And that was when Giriraj’s ugly words resonated inside my head. And Parveen Togadia’s equally hateful anti-Muslim comments, sent a small chill down my spine. Here we were, around thirty music lovers, appreciating every moment of this fine evening in all its fullness.Were we perhaps, attending one of the last such concerts? Wasn’t it entirely possible that a few months, maybe even weeks, down the line, there could be people  out there ‘objecting’ to our innocent pleasure, and possibly disrupting the evening  forcing the musicians to stop performing.  I could so easily envisage a grim future scenario featuring Togadia clones issuing ultimatums  and threats to all of us at the mellifluous ‘mehfil’… ordering us to either disband and go home… or pack our bags and head to Pakistan!
If such a repulsive scenario seems implausible as of now, think again. Refer to Togadia’s bully tactics and intimidation as he urged followers to chase out a Muslim house owner in Bhavnagar by spitting on him, and scaring his family before forcibly taking over his home. So, I don’t think  my fears about what lies ahead are in the least exaggerated. When I say I may have attended one of the last concerts at my friend’s  home – it is a distinct possibility.And to think, here was a place that welcomed people bound together by nothing more than their love for music, food, movies,conversation. During these mellow evenings, nobody bothered or cared  about the origin of that divine music. Nobody asked for the religious identity of those throats. Did those voices come bearing the tag of a specific religion? I realised with a shock I was already using the past tense! As if I was writing a  requiem for an  era . As if I was gearing up to deal with something terrible… and inescapable !
I thought of the time I spent with other, equally wonderful friends and musicians at their sprawling bungalow in Karachi a couple of years ago. It was 3 a.m. on a cold and crisp winter night as ‘authentic’ Sufi singers (this was the hostess’ description), were just about warming up. Piping hot, over sweet tea was welcomed by guests shivering on the lawns, standing close to the sigrees dotting the garden. I was the only ‘outsider’, the only Indian, the sole Hindu present. And yet (this is a very important ‘and yet’). There wasn’t a single moment of  ‘otherness’  as we relaxed on soft bolsters  once the concert got underway, and surrendered to the music. Later, at dawn, over hot, sticky jalebis and more tea, we chatted and chatted and chatted till the sun came up and reminded us that extending the night any further would have been highly inconsiderate. We could have been in Mumbai… Delhi… Lahore… anywhere in the world. This is how it can be… should be.

Standing in the longest queue I have ever been in at the polling station, I looked at the eager faces of young voters from my neighbourhood. Did they really give a damn about Hindu-Muslim hate  politics? I am willing to bet they really didn’t. For the sake of this open minded generation, India has to move on… and away from the Togadia brand of  bullying and intimidation. India must reject and demonstrate its contempt for the Giriraj Singhs who point unbiased citizens to Pakistan, as if damning them to purgatory. Hatred and prejudice can only corrode our country – any country. So, yes, I am willing to  go to Pakistan, if that’s what it takes to stand up for what is right and just. It might surprise Giriraj to discover how many Indians are ready to join me!


Raghav said...

While there is no second thought to the point made I also wonder if we are already "don't even utter anything related to Hindu or Hinduism... even if you think so you are right winged and are damned".

Quote: "During these mellow evenings, nobody bothered or cared about the origin of that divine music. Nobody asked for the religious identity of those throats." - so it is... Ultimatums and threats will wear away as long as there are a good deal of 'Nobody-s'

Latha said...

Lol. Ya. Pak will give you the freedom to practise your religion, have Ganesh processions & allow Visarjans in their seas. (If your daughters follow you - I doubt very much), they will be 'taken care of' very well. Your temples will be safe. Have a nice journey. Say 'hi' to Hafiz sayeed & 'D' company if you happen to meet them. Bon Voyage.

Anonymous said...

We are forgetting that Pakistan is our half brother.
There is no difference between us.
Go there and get the same treatment.
They cannot live with their own people.
Neither can we live with our own.
Once the minorities are taken care off, they will go after the poor, as it is they cannot visit Temples and draw water to take a sip.
Then there will be the North and the South and the East and the West.
We must ask ourselves why we cannot live in peace and have a good way (quality) of life.
We worry about what happened 100 years ago and cannot have peace. Why???? because we rob/live of the poor.
So this is a BIG CURSE.

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sb said...

Ms De - I'm sort of a fan, but have just one question. During your travels to Pakistan, did you happen to meet any of the Hindu girls who were kidnapped and forcefully converted to Islam?

Unknown said...

All those using such a hate for not voting in a particular way needs serious treatment. Voting as per his will is a fundamental right of every citizen and those people going to extreme hate are not above the constitution. Hats off to Miss Shobha De for bringing in this issue. As far as discussion on a neighbouring country goes, it is a separate topic and needs separate article to discuss. I read their newpaper dawn every day and can confidently say that their side still is in serious lack with plurality. So, lets not compare each other and accept separate pathways.

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